I think it much more important that YOU take yourself seriously. Who cares what others think about how we look? You can't control that. That's on them. Really! So I hope you are losing weight for you and not for anyone else.

I know its easy to say don't care what other's think; but you must. Your actions are what will show them who you really are; not your weight. its starts with self esteem and confidence; they may sense that you feel less than optimal (b/c of your weight) and so they interpret it in another way; try to focus on your talents and your abilities; and show them what your made of!!!! once you start realizing that it does make a difference, your self esteem will increase and you will carry yourself differently and others will see you in that way as well. Stand tall; think positive, and take comfort in knowing that you are capable of doing what ever it is you set your mind to. Good luck.

You are a beautiful and unique woman. There's no one that exactly like you. You have your own gifts and talents. I also believe that the important thing is that you take yourself seriously. That's what really counts. I am hoping you are losing this weight because you want to do it for yourself.